The Dechurched

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The Dechurched

People who have been burned by their church are often left wondering "What happened?" They feel isolated and angry - spiritual outcasts and orphans in the world.

On this page are some kitchen table discussions. Hopefully, the topics will help you understand that you are not alone in your experience. They also may give some insights into what happened. Don't give up on God because of what some of His children have done. He still has a rich spiritual life experience waiting for you.

I'm Done with Church! 

This series focuses on the dynamics within Christian church communities that result in people being excluded from their church communities. It is intended to be an objective resource to help people reflect upon what may have been going on in their church while they were feeling cut off.

"What Happened?"   This is the introduction to the series and provides an overview of four general ways people are excluded from their congregations

Spiritual Groups  - How group dynamics include and exclude people within their congregations

Exclusion Mechanisms - Explores the dynamics of how people are excluded from their congregations:

Why Clergy Become Dechurched

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Rediscovering Your Spiritual Path

I wish I could say this had a simple 4 point process that worked all the time. I can't. Things I can tell you:

1. God cares.  Make this a truth in your life, even if you can never prove it. It is the beginning and end of a healing faith.

2. Don't isolate yourself. Life is always darker when we go it alone.

3. Look at the "Resources" page on this website. There are a lot of links to websites and books with a lot more. I believe you'll find something that will help you rediscovery your spiritual path.